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Expectations can Damage us

When we give, it is but natural for us to expect something in return. This is true for any kind of human relationship whether it be friendships, romantic relationships or family ties. There is no escaping the desire to be appreciated, to be...

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Loving for the wrong reasons

The desire to love is compelling. It is a force so strong that it is difficult to overcome. Relationships are a natural consequence of the fundamental need to love.  It forms an integral part of the process of growth and maturity. The year...

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Escaping One's Past

We all commit mistakes. There are myriad reasons why they happen. And when they do, all we want is to put our mistakes behind us. Sometimes we even attempt to erase them from memory.     Yet there will always be reminders of our faults....

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Seeking the approval of others

When we are deciding upon something, especially when it involves a serious issue, we occasionally seek the opinion of others. This is natural since there is wisdom in obtaining the advice of those close to us.However, when we make decisions,...

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Distinguisheder than our imperfections

To be human, is to be imperfect. We are all flawed, frail and prone to error. This is our undeniable nature. And this adds to the uniqueness of each person. But how do these imperfections affect us?Insecurities result from the inadequacies w...

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Appreciating Life

Life has purpose if we choose to find it and strive towards its fulfillment. But what of ones demise? When the death of someone whom we hold dear comes too soon and unexpectedly, what purpose does it serve? What reason will satisfy those who...

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Mere Distractions

Being in the company of shallow friendships may bring us a measure of elation. Engaging in the occasional alcoholic drinking spree or some other vice may grant us a degree of pleasure. Uncertain and ambiguous romantic relationships may even...

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Moments and memories

Appreciating our existence requires a perspective that looks at it in its entirety. Like reading a book, we cannot say whether it is good or bad without knowing the whole tale. The same principle applies to life itself.Life is a series of ev...

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Seeing Life as a Game: The Mind without Remorse

We will inevitably meet individuals who see life as a game. For them, life is pure fun and they will attempt to get as much out of it as they can. A person who possesses this perspective will regard everybody as playmates in this game of lif...

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Executen't be a Executeormat

You consider yourself a trustworthy friend, loyal and dependable. You try your best to be helpful and generous to the friends you make. You invest much time and effort in a friendship. Youre always around to listen. Because of this, youre th...

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Are you an enabler?

All of us desire acceptance. Our friends seek us out because they know we make them feel accepted. The dynamics of friendship require that we remain nonjudgmental towards one another.But what do we do when our friend shares with us that he i...

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Selfless and Constant Like

A relationship begins to exist when two people willingly decide to enter it. But once they do so, they are transformed from being separate individuals into integral elements of a romantic union. They lose their individualities and surrender...

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The MeaPositive of Fidelity

Couples often agonize about each others faithfulness. Being secure in the relationship can be a source of much anxiety for both of them. But is there a way to ensure the loyalty of our partner? What observable behavior or visible guarantee c...

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The Pharisee Within

There lies inside all men the tendency to judge others. And this is the reason why no one has been spared from being victims of other peoples judgment. To judge is to evaluate based on preconceived criteria. It is a process by which one appr...

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Fright and Faith

We sometimes act on impulse. Emotions drive us to do so. We tend to let feelings govern our behavior. When our emotions are too powerful, our mind becomes overwhelmed. And rational thought loses control over our actions. When this happens, w...

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Clear Your Mind and Find Your Sexual Self

Gaining a truly meaningful connection through sex is not something that just "happens". If it did, the planet would be awash with happy, enlightened, sentient and sexually fulfilled beings instead of the reality of a western world of stresse...

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How to Motivate Someone for Action?

During my classes at one of the top b-schools of India, I often pose this question to my students - Why do people resort to violence? For that matter, why do people do anything? De Becker talks about 4 things.Justification: we make a judgme...

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To be Liked or to Like

Every day we see another couple parting ways, another casualty of love. Two people now divided, both wandering lost, confused and alone. Two broken hearts seeking solace because of a dream shattered by foolishness, a couple fated to fail fro...

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The Three Ingredients of Self Motivation

I know that I am supposed to do a particular activity like an assignment, or study a book or write letters. But I tend to postpone these indefinitely, citing various excuses.The major reason why we procrastinate is because we are not motivat...

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Correlations of Like and Respect

You could get into a relationship with someone who only loves you but sooner or later, you will ask for the respect you deserve and when you will not get that then I would suggest you take the back door and get the hell out of this foe relat...

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Refusing to Surrender

When you have gotten used to sadness, sometimes returning to it bestows you with a sense of comfort. You may find yourself welcoming the familiarity of its gloomy embrace. For if sadness is all that you have known then perhaps happiness is a...

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DEnrageous Emotions

Being human makes us susceptible to the onset of feelings. The role of these emotions varies. Some of them are useful while others may be harmful..The use of social media for self-expression has reached a point that it makes us feel we can s...

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Capture the Positive Momentum

If you find yourself growing more and more uncomfortable with your negative emotions, if they are annoying distractions to the little flame of peace and well-being starting to glow within you, if you find yourself wanting to nurture even the...

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What Can Help Me Find an Conceptl Job?

Many of my business school students, quit after working for only a few months in a job, some of the reasons they cite are listed below.I was bored!I was overworked!It was not what I was promised!The organization is not good!I did not like th...

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Assertiveness The Right Way of Being!

Assertiveness is the ability to formulate and communicate ones own thoughts, opinions and wishes in a clear, direct, and non-aggressive way. It is the ability to express oneself and ones rights without violating the rights of others. The ab...

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Knowing What We Want

Oftentimes we are unaware of what we want. Many of us go through life without having a clear end goal. Or we know what we desire but fail to see the appropriate path to take.And when we finally know what we long for, the next question we sho...

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To Like without Certainty

Someone I know who has been in a relationship for years had just revealed to me that they have broken up. Of course, this is nothing new. In fact, who among us can count the number of couples we know that did not last? However, I began to th...

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Depression, Insanity and Being in Like

Being in love and being rational do not go together well. Everyone who has been in love knows this to be true. Attraction, infatuation and romantic euphoria make being in love the ultimate drug. I say this because being in love can be addict...

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How Can A Trainee Obtain New Concepts Approved

So after completing my MBA from a top MBA college in India, I am a new joinee to my organization and I have a great idea which can add to the bottom line as well as advertise me to the powers-that-be. However, I am not confident that my boss...

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To Find Yourself

A couple is breaking up because one of them claims that he needs to find himself. My first reaction was that the person saying this is has come up with a convenient excuse to let go and to be free to love someone else without placing the bla...

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5 Reasons Why Theory Is As Necessary As Practice

Most MBA students, even those from the best b-schools of India, believe that reading theory is a waste of time.Take the adage, Give a man a fish and he is not hungry for a day; teach a man to fish and he will not be hungry ever! what we wan...

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Torn Between Two

The story of a girl having to choose between two suitors is an epic romantic tale that is told and retold in books and television series. It sells to female patrons and audiences simply because it is arguably the ultimate fantasy. There are...

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What Designs a Decision Right

I have asked this of some people and many say it is the consequence of a particular choice that often dictates whether a previous decision can be deemed correct. We can therefore look at what resulted from that decision whether it was harmfu...

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Thoughts Tedious the Words

Conversations between people occur ordinarily on a regular basis. Usually we tend to take what people say at face value. Yet it might be more interesting and useful to look behind the words that are spoken and delve into the mind of the indi...

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What Bothers You

Before reading further, try doing a self-awareness check and attempt to find out how you are actually feeling right now. Are you anxious about something? Has some recent news made you unhappy? Are you facing a current issue that is irritatin...

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Seeing the World Through the Eyes of Depression

There is pain. It does not cease. It lies just within the threshold of your awareness. It often prevents you from doing what you need to do. Because you would rather just rest as it keeps you tired. Sometimes you just wish to sleep and hope...

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Indirect Ways of Making a Girl Descend In Like

It will probably come as a surprise for girls to learn that boys almost never attempt to be close to a girl solely for friendship. There is perhaps always some attraction involved. Most girls will attest to this, that many of their romantic...

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The Overwhelming Benefits of Hemp Oils

Hemp oil, also known as drying oil, is obtained from hemp seeds by cold pressing. Usually, unrefined hemp oil is light green in color whereas refined hemp oil is clear and colorless. It contains 76% of PUFA (Polyunsaturated fatty acids) incl...

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Romantic Revenge

In one of my classes, a girl shared that her boyfriend flirted often with other girls. When she got fed up, she did the same as a way of getting back at him.This behavior that I call "romantic revenge" is something I have heard happen many t...

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Those Three Words

here is an apparent thoughtless ease with which we say these three words that convey one's affection for another. It has become thoughtless because more often than not, we do not usually think about the true meaning of the words before utter...

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When Right and Wrong Depends Only on You

Any student of philosophy would argue that this is an issue involving ethics. And there are quite a number of ethical theories that state a certain standard in determining what is right. Religion and ideology have also played historical role...

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Descending In Like with Someone You Always See

How does our inherent survival mechanism teach us which environments are safe? It is only through regular exposure to particular places and situations and realizing that these do not cause us any harmful or unpleasant experience, that we dev...

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Wanting to Believe

A man becomes a victim of a fake investment. A customer is deceived by an advertisement and buys a useless product. And a girl falls prey to a guy who only wants her body. Perhaps all of us have been victims of users and manipulators. And ye...

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Competing for 'Likes'

Instagram has recently announced that it is experimenting with the removal of its 'like' feature in 7 countries.Those of us who have been using social media for quite some time now have realized that not everything we post gets rewarded with...

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Trusting Blindly

Many assert that trust is the most fundamental requirement of any lasting relationship. It forms the center of each others sense of security which becomes the basis for the growth of the couples bond. But how does trust develop? Is it someth...

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Complete Tips for Silky and Smooth Hair

What stops you from having silky and smooth hair? The answer is frizz. Frizzy hair ruins our look especially when you want your best hair for the day.  Frizz is caused by either high moisture content or less moisture in the air. Pollution h...

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My Faith for Your Like

A couple broke up because they each belong to different faiths. The girl claimed that her family is very strict about their church's requirement of marrying someone who holds the same beliefs. And because the guy was reluctant to undergo rel...

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Indian Designup for Different Occasions

India is a land of different cultures and traditions. Every culture has their perception of beauty. Makeup indicates the culture we belong to. List of Indian culture is endless, engagement, wedding, anniversary, festivals, pooja, etc. Makeup...

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Why you should listen to nature sounds

Water flowing over pebbles in a stream, birds calling to each other in a forest, the wind blowing across a pasture, waves lapping at the beach, a waterfall thundering down When feeling tired, stressed or distracted, youve probably used natur...

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When Your Liker Constantly Criticizes You

Criticism should be seen as a tool for improvement. Human beings have always desired that things be done more effectively, more efficiently and more beautifully. When we criticize someone, we are in fact pinpointing a possible error in the b...

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Detoxifying Social Media

Here are some ideas that may lessen the toxicity that keeps on spreading online.Don't confirm friend requests just because you want to feel popular. Chances are, most of the people who are currently in your friend list are those whom you add...

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Blaming Others for Your Unhappiness

It is far easier to put the blame on someone else when things go wrong. You can blame your boss for how miserable your job is. You can blame your teacher for your inability to understand the lesson. You can blame your romantic partner for yo...

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pick Carefully the People around You

Much of what we do is moved by how we want people to see us. We find ourselves forced into social roles that are shaped by the reactions or expectations of those around us. A child will attempt to gain the affection of his parents by exhibit...

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How to Straighten Your Hair like a Pro

Sleek, shiny and straight hair is eye-catchy isnt? Not only girls but also boys are crazy about it. Straight hair looks cool on boys. It gives a classy look even if your dress is not much rocking. It is pretty easy to do and takes less time,...

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Unique Personalized Gifts Concepts For Christmas

The Christmas holiday is a few steps away, unique preparations are taking place in individuals ' homes to celebrate this celebration, a few people have made increasing plans for it, so some people have assumed that this time this celebration...

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The You That Could Have Been

We see the world around us and the people whom we know. We observe their moments of joy, their laughter and their triumphs. And we sometimes wonder why we are not as happy or as successful as they are. We then look at ourselves and we become...

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Simple steps to deal with your sleep problems

Whether its down to anxiety, stress, a poor sleeping pattern or youre just very unlucky finding yourself staring at the ceiling as the clock ticks by is something no one will enjoy. Everyone needs a goodnights sleep but achieving that isnt a...

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4 Crucial Virtues Of All Self-respecting Men

One of my newest favorite books is The Way Of Men, by Jack DonnovanIt will be especially useful to you if (like me) you grew up without a father figure.My dad was working 14-16 hours a day, 7 days a week and never spent time with me. Now tha...

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The Changing Nature of Jobs and Careers

In our parents time, joining the public sector ensured job security and perpetual employment (till retirement). Most of our parents generation stuck to one company throughout their working life. The economy was stable and upheavals were rare...

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